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What I learned By Doing A Ted Talk (Last in a Series)

In my newsletters leading up to my TEDx Talk on February 29, (Part 1 here & Part 2 here & Part 3 here), I wrote and spoke about how I applied for and was selected to do a TEDx Talk, as well as how torturous the preparation process was. Now I have a chance to share my TEDx Talk with you and give you some final thoughts about my experience.

This TEDx was sponsored by the University of Mississippi, the state’s flagship university. I’d never been to the state before, so was excited to go. Ole Miss has a lot of history, much of it around the Civil War, and exploring the campus and the town of Oxford was an education. 

Lyceum at Night The Lyceum on a clear night
The Luceum

Southern hospitality is no joke, but it was more than that. The entire event was organized and run by students. There were a couple of faculty advisors, but the students managed the whole thing, including recruiting sponsors, selling tickets, arranging for airport transportation and hotel rooms and organizing the rehearsals and receptions. 

So, rehearsals… you know what a nutcase I am about this aspect of the process. Turns out, the TED organization is pretty nuts about it, too. The day before, we had a dress rehearsal. An actual dress rehearsal. We had to wear our planned outfits so they could see how we looked and how they’d make sure the mics could be securely attached. That night, we received the full agenda for the day of the show.

The venue was The Ford Center, a beautiful performing arts center where it so happened Barack Obama and John McCain had held a debate. A professional video crew ran the tech including 2 or 3 cameras, lights, and sound. The settings are computerized so if they have to do something again, it’s just a push of a button, which was good because it turned out there were some technical problems with my sound. So after it was over, they had me do a couple of lines again in an empty room and all they had to do to make it so no one would ever know was to push that button to re-create the exact conditions.

View from the stage

The day of, call was about 2 hours prior to showtime. There was a final check where we practiced walking on stage, speaking for a minute to check sound, and walk off. We also practiced a group bow. There was a green room, where we waited (I so lucky to speak first). The students ran the backstage operations. They each wore radio units so they could talk to each other quietly. There was an emcee who warmed up the audience and introduced each speaker. Having spent my first career in show business, I really felt at home. 

There were also breaks that featured entertainment including a jazz band and a high school choir. 

Curtain was at 7:30pm and we were done by 9. The lobby reception enabled us to meet and chat with members of the audience. 

In my last report about this TEDx journey, I’d mentioned I’d put in about 150 hours since November. I’d estimate from then until the performance, I added another 50, so about 200 hours in total for a 12-minute talk! I think it was worth it.

February 29 and thereabouts was the last time things felt normal… getting on planes, staying in hotels, eating out, shaking hands with new people, hugging people I was so happy to see again or to say goodbye. So I cannot say enough about how wonderful the actual experience was and what great memories I will always have.

P.S.: Check out the other speakers, too. I didn’t even mention what an honor it was to meet and spend time with them. The playlist is here. Start with Beth Ann Fennelly, Warrick Bishop, and Areesha Razi

Video Conference Dos & Don’ts

This quick, 30-second video is composed of 12 actual video conference scenes I’ve observed just in the past week and that I’ve reenacted. 11 of them are don’ts.

It may be short, but it speaks volumes. Plus, you’ll get to see me at my worst, so now you have to watch!

Enjoy!

How to Prepare For a TED Talk (Part 3 in a series)

In Part 3 of my TED Talk journey, I’m going to show you how to prepare for a TED Talk. In my recent newsletters (Part 1 here & Part 2 here), I wrote and spoke about how I applied for and was selected to do a TEDx Talk, as well as how torturous the preparation process has been. I’m pleased to report the worst has passed and I’m now at a point where I can (mostly) enjoy myself.

Things turned the corner about 3 weeks ago. One of my biggest sticking points was that it was far too long. This has always been a problem for me… I want to give everything. But when you only have 12 minutes, everything is not an option. I could not figure out what to cut…

I was paralyzed and knew I needed an outside view. So I hired a coach and together we cut.

This was a huge relief because once that pressure was off and a nearly final draft was ready, I was able to get down to the business of rehearsing, i.e., saying it out loud. (As I always tell clients, rehearsing in your head doesn’t count; we’re all very eloquent in our own heads.) I also had to produce slides.

Rehearsing is extremely tedious and boring. You’re basically saying the same thing over and over again while trying to keep it fresh. It’s also critically important. By feeling how the words roll off your tongue, you can identify trouble spots and edit. As a result, I tightened it up.

Just about 2 weeks ago, I started trying it out on friends and my daughters. I rarely do this. I have a pretty practiced ear and know how to structure with stories, humor, and other devices. However, I felt this talk is so different from anything I’d ever done, and the stakes so high, that it was crucial to get some feedback from people I respected. This also adds the element of the jitters. Yep, I get nervous. But it’s important to know how that’s going to feel when the big moment arrives. Nerves always work in my favor… but only when I’m super prepped. Once I say the first couple of lines, it converts into this beautiful form of energy and the audience and speaker become one. It’s exhilarating.

Anyway, I received some excellent feedback and have been able to make some minor, but helpful changes before it’s too late. I’m not one of those people who can change things until the last second. (Truthfully, I don’t think anyone should be doing that, but some workplaces make it unavoidable.)

Mostly, what this has proven to me – and I seem to always need this proof – that it does all work out. IF I practice what I preach. 

Meaning, I practice.

P.S.: I’ve put about 150 hours into this since the end of November. That might scare you (it scares me!) but it’s the only way I have found to hit a home run.